Have you heard of the ๐๐ป๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป-๐๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐?
It’s the notion that if you just give people the right ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐, they will change their ๐ฎ๐๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ and ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐๐ฟ. While it’s a neat theory, it unfortunately doesn’t really hold up in the real world; mere facts just aren’t enough.
So what do we do when we have ๐๐ค๐ค๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ, but are struggling to take consistent action towards our goals? Or to say it another way, what actually drives lasting behaviour change?
The research on habit formation suggests 3 key things:
โขย epiphanies
โขย environmental changes
โขย tiny tweaks to existing habits
๐๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฝ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐ฒ๐ are suddenย revelations, which unfortunately are impossible to consciously bring about (unless you posses some kind of magical powers).
๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ are a bit easier to manipulate in your favour, although you can’t make all of your friends suddenlyย decide to go to the gym at the same time and location as you.
That leaves your daily ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐๐. These are small actions that compound into large results, if done repeatedly over time. The more often you do them, the better you’ll feel. This also creates a feedback loop that, over time, helps to wire in new habits. And most importantly, a small action is something that you can start to do right now to help form the daily habits you desire for yourself.
Like cutting up some vegetables
Prepping a healthy meal ahead of time
Going for a walk after dinner
Taking 3 deep breaths to calm down when you’re feeling anxious
It’s why ACTION beats INFORMATION, every single time.
And the more you shrink the action step down into something bite-sized and manageable, the easier it is to get started (and stay in motion) with the good habit that you’re trying to form.